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Some Family Vibes

  • Jul 16
  • 11 min read

There’s some family functions/events/gatherings happening this year that have me noticing ‘how much’ – as in, more than usual. This is for both sides of the family and includes the extended as well. Not a normal occurrence for me/us (hubby and I).

This is interesting to me, having an awareness of the bifurcating times we are in, the splitting of the ‘2 worlds’ will intensify and thus, full-on breaking away from certain or various people that have been circling in our lives (for lack of a better word).

We all have some family (or friends) like this, I mean, who doesn’t? There’s always going to be a few that are just ‘there’; either haphazardly, casually, hit-n-miss, or have been circling the drain for some time. I say all this in a vague, loving, way because we all know that nothing is ‘haphazard’! LOL!


The full flush is upon us. And I am feeling that all these family things/friends things we are doing (or going to be doing) this year, where we are going to be seeing family we haven’t seen in forever… is part of this ‘last call’ situation to get some last looks at some of these people. Ya know what I mean…??? But also – there is a ‘reconnecting’ that can be/could be happening as well. There are 2 sides, right?


Just in this first half of this year we have two weddings, graduation, funeral services and a retirement celebration. Normally, we barely will be attending even just one of these in a year. And any family reunion (either side) is a rarity as well. The events of this year involves us to be traveling far and wide it seems. But anytime I can visit the ones dearest to me I am all-over-it!

My personal core circle is small; it really doesn’t involve 98% of any/all relatives. Besides my immediate family unit (hubby + kiddos + the families they are starting), my sister (+family), and hubby’s brother (+family) - the core friends are also only a handful. This is what things have been boiling-down-to over the last several years. The thinning of ‘my herd’ has been on-going for over a decade.


Knowing and understanding that we all will have a lot of people ‘leave’, or be removed from our frequency, brings a level of calm and okay-ness about it. Recognizing and seeing the ‘why’s’ is a bonus but not necessarily something one needs to worry and/or fret about.

Seriously tho – once you are in-tune with your core-soul-higher Self, and trust in God/Universe’s plan, you can see the ‘why’ clear as day. And you should be paying attention along the way anyways – this awareness would be sending the red-flags and alerting you to the fact that this person just isn’t on the same wave-length as you and probably won’t be any time soon. The drift, by then, has already begun.


There are a handful of family that have been greatly ‘reduced’ but not completely removed. They have their issues, which is very clear to you, the observer, but not to themselves. There are very-little-to-no ‘resonating factors’ (things-in-common to keep us hanging out any more - beyond that family connection).

The timeline split is obvious, the energy/frequency shift is felt - but they are still a piece of the ancestral healing aspects which can keep them circling (but at bay).

They are distant (in so many ways), are only occasional, and that’s ok. I call them the ‘small doses’ family members. I’m done in about a half-hour (or less!) with them and their energy. They can be very draining. They don’t think so (LOL!) but trust me… they are v-e-r-y draining!


Limiting ‘time’ with these people is a choice that can be misunderstood through the eyes of others but seriously, they themselves aren’t seeing stuff that I am seeing.

It’s a disconnect that actually comes very easily for me, or maybe the word: more naturally. Maybe that has to do with my Aries-ness about me; and definitely my clairsentience and intuition that is always ‘on’, reading a room, feeling the vibes, seeing it with my own eyes, etc.

As I am always developing/gaining more discernment, tapping in to energy signatures, and just know. I don’t disregard any of that information – I utilize my senses and that is what allows those abilities to ‘read a room’ (for example).


What’s also in the ‘mix’ of Me is all the experiences of being raised by parents who picked-up and moved around a lot! Practically as an annual event. So much so, that It got to the point where I stopped unpacking, left most things in boxes, because why would I bother – it’s all gotta go back in the box at the end of the school year (or in the middle of the school year).

No attachments were ever really made, to people or the places; no friendships of any great quality - friends come and go… and in all seriousness - it was me that was going.

I learned young how to read people, I didn’t have time for any long-lasting childhood bestie. I wanted to hang-out, play, and enjoy some of these casual friends ‘in the now’.

Not all of them were winners, people cross-our-path to teach us things (always) - that’s how we keep learning and honing our discernment. Oh the experiences!! LOL!☺ 

Mom would joke about our family being a bunch of gypsies, nomads – but I know better these days, she meant it. Being a nomad to my core is actually very fitting as I walk this earth plane. All experiences are here to help us, right? Well, that was setting the tone, for sure!


Starseeded people are nomadic in various ways, anything from physical to the mental, emotional, spiritual – and the creative out-put they should be doing, and the locations on this earth they need to be ‘working’ (or - just BE-ing).

I can only speak for myself, but I/we feel it in our core, in our bones, that there is ‘more’ out there, our innate wants more of/for us beyond any 3D-box that others try to put us in… and we want truth!

We wander – mentally, physically, and spiritually. We get squirmy when others want us to be kept in a defined space, follow rules, systems, and be obedient. Ya, that’s just not going to stick!


We’re here to buck-systems, defy controllers, tell the truth, and BE our own Self. Self-mastery is an on-going ascension symptom – but I’m here for it!

We want, crave, need authenticity. And as we become this within ourselves we want this from others as well. The 3D mindset and/or what some are now calling the NPC’s (non-player character) is no longer something we have patience for; so, we ‘leave it’ and in turn – it will ‘leave us’.

When you pop-up and out, away from lower frequencies – there is an air ‘up here’ that is liberating! It triggers that search for our soul family, other starseeds that are awake.

The sleepy-sleeper people are gradually getting more and more boring, lame and not worth our time and definitely our energy. When you know – you know.

When you understand that all these matrices of programs, systems, ruling/controlling and all kinds of various mind-controlling methods (AI/’nets’) were put in place to keep humans from their ascension… it sure is clear as day why it can be hard and a struggle to allow yourself to wake up, come on-line, and connect with your heart, God and your higher Self.

So much gunk, garbage, and the cesspool we have to swim through to get to the clean water is mind-blowing, to say the least.


Wading through earthly 3D stuff isn’t the only thing we’re doing.

Yes, there will be a lot of people sharing their newly discovered truth(s) as more and more are awakening. It’s very noticeable on social platforms.

I used to make the joke about how we’re all going to be watching others literally ‘awaken’ online, on a ‘live stream’! Because everyone wants to be seen right now, there’s a huge mass of people living their life online, live, and for the world to see.

Many are soulless, many are disconnected/heavily in a mind-controlled state, and many of the many are all just AI/bots and fake.

For the new age people that are disconnected – they are really kicking-it-up a notch! The false light people, chatting about their half-truths, are really thick and seem to be everywhere all the sudden! And of course they are – it’s all about timing.


These ‘social’ platforms are pushing false light and rabbit holes of dead-end disconnect. Some of the red flag(s) is: that they have huge followings, ‘channel’ something or someone, ‘calling in’ the false/fallen archangels, or those that ‘work with’ the moon/lunar energies (a HUGE turn-off), remote viewers that go on and on about stuff you could actually find on-line with a little bit of research – it’s nothing new and it’s not secret information – but to the newly awakened: this info is gold!

I actually feel a little sad and sorry for those awakening now because of social media. And yes, it was designed that way. To funnel the newbies and freshly-awakened right down into a false abyss, distracted, fed little truths to keep them ‘happy’ all while avoiding the real truth.

New age is big business, so is social media.

It’s the modern-day herding and corralling of collective un-awakened. It’s crack-cocaine for the developing mind. The unfortunate – is parents allowing their babies to watch an ipad all day long; but then can’t figure out why their kid lashes out in anger when it’s taken away from them. Geesh!

To be a parent of littles right now – is truly, the true test!! You, yourself, need to be awake and aware enough to not be setting your children up for failure in such ways that will surely bite-you in the ass later. But, in reality, this is true for any/all parents no matter what time/date/age/years/decades you are parenting in!


The intro-nets and world wide web of things is a system set-up to derail! It has its benefits, the good; but at its core – a lot of not-good! And you don’t need to be a guru-coder type person to clearly see that!

Why would it be any different from how all the other programs and systems are set-up?

Everything has been purposefully designed to keep humanity in-its-place; distracted, detached, derailed, and dumb.

Falling into the deep hole of social media and what is casually called ‘doom scrolling’, for example, is all part of the agendas at large. The addiction to constantly be on a cellphone is all by design so people don’t know how to check-in with themselves. They would rather check-in with an influencer instead. Just tell me what to do, what to think, where to go, etc.

It’s akin to a religious talking-head and his church-going minions. The enslavement of the mind-controlled church-going bible-thumping brain washed is just a parallel example of the social media brainwashed. This control-energy has its signature on many different forms and ways. All part of the programming here on the 3D earth plane. It’s control on all the levels!


But I digress.


I wish everyone on planet the best!

Good luck!

It’s a jungle here; with many venomous dangerous creatures that are also doing their best.

And boy is it getting more and more obvious with them – in their last days! They are literally setting the world on fire on their way out.

Spiritually awakening in this current here and now would be… rough.

I thought awakening in the early 2000’s was rough!

Not to mention already walking around on this planet with some ‘clairs’ on/active. By the way, just because people have activated ‘clairs’ doesn’t mean they are spiritual or even spiritually awake! This seems to be a huge misunderstanding.

I’ve met a couple of clairs-‘on’ people in my lifetime and they seemed a little misguided/blocked – not much different from anyone else really.

A clairvoyant can be just as lost or confused as anyone without having their higher sensory activated and/or on. It boils down to how much personal work they have done or are doing. Some… you can tell: not so much, and it shows.


I myself was a kiddo with ‘clairs’ on – but was I actually knowing and/or understanding it? Not really. It just was what it was, I didn’t know any different. I was just the weird kid. I just knew stuff, could see stuff, hear stuff, talk to the dead, etc.

I was just that… a kid.

No guidance or help to hone this, understand, etc.

Talking about it with others brought to my attention that – no, this isn’t what others are seeing/doing. I spoke about it less and less because there sure was a lot of shame, ridicule and shut-down; basically shutting-me-up – so that I could be considered ‘normal’.

Of course, if others were shut-down – how would they be of any help, really? They can’t and they weren’t. And this was back in the 70’s! You really were on your own!

But still – as a child, a kid, we’re already dazed and confused down here and now I gotta figure out how to operate all this other stuff! The struggle is/was truly ‘real’!


This current-now timeframe would be SO derailing to be trying to navigate.

I feel that all of humanity that is supposed to ‘make it’ – will. The rest – probably not so much. I use the term ‘make it’ loosely because what is making it for one person might not be the same for the next. Yup, gotta keep things vague but keeping within context.

It’s my understanding that there is a tiered system in place for rehabilitation for ALL humans (consciousness) once the physical body has been dropped.

This is comforting, because even all my family will be heading for a level of rehab that will spiritually evolve them eventually (out of the false-red cube-matrices). I don’t spend any energies on worrying about whether they will ever wake-up or not, it’ ain’t up to me.

Sure, it’s a little tiring (or draining) to be in their (current-state-of) presence and have to go through the motions of listening to them yammer-on and on about irrelevant 3D stuff, things that don’t matter in the bigger picture.

But there is always the hope that maybe something we talk about, or I say with a different perspective, that might plant a seed somewhere deep into their consciousness.

That someday (maybe even right then and there!) the seed will expand and assist them into seeing something differently, understanding better, or just allow them to be more inquisitive.

It’s amazing how many people just don’t ask the questions, have the curiosity, want to know more (or allow themselves to open-up to want to know more), or even want to really know the actual truth!

This isn’t a shocker because… programming.

But still having the majority of conversations of dead-end vibrational energy (or dead light/closed loop consciousness/thoughts) has me feeling like they are getting farther behind.


I question everything! Truth seekers never stop!

For those that don’t or just aren’t inquisitive – it’s kind-of sad.

I feel like I am a catalyzer, or definitely have my catalyzer moments. Having conversations with others that can maybe bring about a different perspective; or they will take action for the betterment of themselves (or others), is observed either right then or in following days.

It can be reciprocal but that’s if we’re on the same wave-length, ya know?

I love having convos or hearing/reading information that catapults me into my deep consciousness thoughts and feels – sending me into an expanded state! Triggered in a good way! ☺ I love this! These are the discussions I enjoy.

Not the dead-energy materialistic soul-less type.


So, on that note…


Whether or not I will ‘see’ any of my earthly lineage (more specifically but not limited to - the distant relatives and/or family that is obviously falling-away as of late), or the friends, of my here and now – again, down the road on my timeline – in my current ascension incarnate… it will just BE (when it comes to God’s grand plan of it all).

If they need to be circling around, going in and out, being a hit-and-miss type of situation – then so be it. It’s for a purpose, for both of us – or maybe one of us!

Healing work can come and go in waves – just like the people in our lives. I get that.

I send them all Love and I wish the best for them and their soul’s evolution.


*Pic courtesy Wix

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